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Monday, February 20, 2006

Monday Mania

With exams finishing on Saturday, going back to classes on Monday was a pain. However, we needn't have worried because the professors were not expecting us to be back. Only one of them took a half an hour class of gup-shup. Another one, who has incidentally written the book we are studying for the paper, could not teach becuase he wasn't carrying his notes!! I am sure that the use of notes can be essential even for someone who has been teaching the paper for years but I am also quite sure he could have managed a class for the people who had made the effort to come all the way to college. Lazy bum.

Free at 11, we had to have fun after the end of the exams even though nobody quite knew what to do. Decided to convert the holiday into a holy-day and went to "check out" Gurdwara Bangla Sahib and Sacred Heart's Cathedral. My first visit to a Gurdwara and hence, the whole fascination with people from well-off families manning the shoes counter, the constant cleaning, the head covering cloths, the huge fish in the water body, etc. Cornered one of the staff members to hear the story of how the Guru had come to cure the people by giving them the magical water. Dutifully drank some of it to make sure we "complete the experience" as another visitor put it to us. Saw the museum which had paintings showing different historic moments in Sikhism. The practicality and absence of ritualism was obvious but the excess of violence and blood was a turn off. In the Gurdwara, I did not feel peaceful or spiritual. No clue why. The church was exactly the opposite. Minus all noise and show, it was very peaceful and if the noise in your mind quietens, it would be a great place to think and pray.

Back home, decided to go for Pride and Prejudice with mom. As did plenty of other mother-daughter duos. Got seats for the second row from the screen and got to hear loads of cribbing from mom :D(Apparently the "grains split" when you sit so near and we were missing out on "where the camera focussed in the dance sequences"). The crowd outside the hall comprised primarily of women of all ages, shapes, sizes and nationalities. Darcy n Lizzy indeed manage to attract a hall-full of women (and a few men) on a weekday afternoon!
The movie was enjoyable even though you felt like you were running through the whole book. Moments you enjoyed in the book but were missing in the movie kept coming back. I am no good at reviewing movies but am jotting down some things that came in my head. Bingley's character was given an additional dose of stupidity which added some laughs to the movie. Collins was just right, he played an irritating character without irritating the audience. Mister and Mrs. Bennet were given an almost equal importance, which was a nice touch. Lizzy was shown as more beautiful than what one gathers from the description in the book. She was, however, as perky as one would like her to be. Darcy was haughty and hot. Basically a thoroughly enjoyable experience.

In conclusion:
  • Go watch the movie.
  • In case of book based movies, you enjoy the movie more when you haven't read the book and you might actually enjoy the book more too because your mind isn't occupied with wondering what happens next!
  • Americans are obsessed with the physical. They almost made Darcy and Lizzy kiss during the first proposal scene, the one where she turns his offer down!

Saturday, February 18, 2006

8 Point Someone

Jasmine tagged me. I am required to list out 8 different points about my soulmate.
Sex of the "target": Male

  1. Tall, dark and bespectacled. Sarees don't look good unless you wear them with heels and men don't like their women to be taller than them. Putting these two facts together, to look a couple of inches taller than I am when I wear 2 inch heels, he has to be atleast 6 feet tall. Also, I want to be able to rest my head against his shoulders and I don't want to bend down to do that. Fair skin and chubby cheeks (which incidentally also describes me) are undesirable in the guy. Guys should be dark. I don't know why but I feel fair guys cannot be trusted. Again no reason for the preference of spectacles except that they sometimes lend a more intellectual look and the fact that I wear them too.
  2. More intelligent than I am. Not a tough ask, I know. He should be able to intellectually challenge me and make me feel like a fool. Like my sister or mother or some of those "evil net friends" do.
  3. It's NOT all about money, honey. I don't want the world. Relationships, ordinary daily experiences and valuable time spent together are things I cherish. So should he.
  4. Should not be lazy. Some people just look like they are overflowing with laziness (no Jasmine, it doesn't show in you no matter how lazy you claim yourself to be!). I hate that. I like activity and would rather be out walking than sitting and talking. Energy and enthusiasm are highly desirable.
  5. Should enjoy traveling. I do and I don't want to travel alone or with someone who keeps cribbing. I can go to the movies alone, eat at Pizza Hut alone, but he'd better travel with me!
  6. Should make me laugh. I laugh at all kinds of silly jokes, so he just needs to be slightly funny and I will be happy.
  7. No Smoking No Booze. May sound like a matrimonial ad but I have bad memories of consequences of someone's addictions. I don't want those things in my life.
  8. Should love me.

And Jasmine, mister crush fulfills about 4 and a half of these points :)

Those who read this blog have either already done the tag, have found their soulmates or will not do the tag even if I mention their names here. However if I am wrong and any of you do not fall in the above categories, please go ahead and do the tag! Leave a comment and blah blah blah.

Tuesday, February 14, 2006

L.O.V.E.

How I described the guy I have a crush on: "he runs marathons, he paints, plays drums, reads books like conrad's lord jim, loves to travel, has a laugh that sounds like it comes straight from his heart compelling u to laugh with him, and very importantly has the cutest smile i have ever seen!!!! of course he is shorter than i am and a huge flirt, but what the hell. ;)"

Anthem of all those who have impossible crushes :

Jispe hum mar mite usko pata bhi nahin,
Kya gila hum karein woh bewafa bhi nahin,
Humne jo sun liya usne kaha bhi nahin,
Ae dil zara soch kar...pyaar kar..
O ho ho pyaar kar...

Happy Valentine's Day to all those in love, requited or unrequited!

Tuesday, February 07, 2006

Disgusting Feeling of Pointlessness

"After more than a month I woke up today with a less-than-enthusiastic feeling. I hate that feeling, which makes me feel that there's absolutely no point to waking up and you might as well go back to sleep. For ever. Thankfully, I was back to my good mood today, but the thought that that disgusting feeling of pointlessness is lurking round the corner is not very comforting."

Read this in a blog today and was reminded of this thought that has been in my mind for some time now. I don't see any point in my existence, there is nothing that I am looking forward to in the future, no desire strong enough to make me want to live. I don't want to end my life but I wouldn't mind if it ended right this minute. Assuming that i will be alive for a reasonable period of time, I have made my plans for what I would do in life, what ideas I would like to live by, etc. But there is no excitement to see those things happen. There is no reason to live. The disgusting feeling of pointlessness envelopes me.

I I I I I me me me me my my my..crap.

Wednesday, February 01, 2006

Someone She Met in the Bus

Engineer. MBA from MDI. Working for EnY. But only two inches taller than me and hence rejected.

Am I old enough to be married off? Do I want to get married? What do I want in my partner? Unimportant issues, apparently.

If the incident was narrated in a tone other than jest, I would have had to throw a tantrum. They had threatened to marry me off if I failed to secure admission in my masters course. I am happily pursuing it now. Let me, puhleeeseeeee!